B is for  “But you don’t look…”  #atozchallenge 

[image description: brown background with a stamp of the A to Z challenge in the background. Writing on the top reads “A to Z participant (2017) then there is a large capital letter ‘B’ in the middle. Below the ‘B’ it reads “blogging from A to Z” below that it reads “http://www.a-to-zchallenge.com/ end of image … More B is for  “But you don’t look…”  #atozchallenge 

I’m a demiguy

Demiguy/demiboy/demiman is someone who partially, but not wholly, identifies as a man or masculine, regardless of the gender assigned at birth. I bet most of you would say I am a man, no questions asked that would be how you would describe my gender. Well let me tell you how you are sort of right, … More I’m a demiguy


Stereotype: a widely held but fixed and oversimplified image or idea of a particular type of person or thing. I hate stereotypes, I get stereotyped regularly, my disabilities get stereotyped regularly. Why does society expect a person to be or act a certain way because of who they are. Why does the media represent only one … More stereotypes

Life now

life now isn’t how I imagined it to be a few years ago.  I guess things do and will always change, but the last few years have been hard. In 2013 I was excited at getting my chest/top surgery referral and getting an appointment with the surgeon. I had been on T a year and … More Life now